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Hot Takes on Messy Dates
Kansas City's live comedy show built from your anonymous dating stories. You submit the chaos — we bring it to the stage for all to judge.
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What it's about
Flirts & Fumbles takes your anonymous story submissions — the ghosting, the group-chat-worthy red flags, the dates that somehow got worse after the appetizer — and brings them live to the stage for all to judge.
It's part comedy show, part group therapy, part "wait, that happened to you too?" Every show features a fresh set of stories, hot takes, and audience games, so no two nights ever go the same chaotic direction.
Send us your story through the form below — names changed, dignity optional.
Every show pulls a fresh set of stories from the submission pile.
Read aloud, roasted, and judged in real time by a room full of strangers who've been there too.
Meet the hosts
Marin Meyer is the creator and co-host of Flirts & Fumbles. Born and raised in St. Louis, MO, she made her way to Kansas City, MO in 2019, bringing a background in mental health and human sexuality — and a professional (and personal) fascination with why dating is so hard for everyone. She's a huge podcast fan on all things dating and relationships, and when she's not collecting dating disasters for the stage, she's probably deep in a new episode. She's happily married with three cats who did not consent to being mentioned in this bio.
Morgan Cochran is a local Kansas City stand-up comedian born and raised in Southwest Missouri who believes that life's most embarrassing moments usually make the best stories. As one half of Flirts & Fumbles, she listens to audience dating disasters and responds with quick wit, questionable advice, and more than a few chaotic stories from her own life that somehow end up being a little too relatable. Whether she's offering a fresh perspective or accidentally admitting she's made the exact same mistake, Morgan brings humor, honesty, and plenty of laughs to every show.
Shows
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Missed a show or just want to relive the chaos? Full episodes of Flirts & Fumbles: Hot Takes on Messy Dates are up on YouTube.
▶ Watch on YouTubeGot something to share?
Every submission — stories, confessions, questions, or a petty grievance you need the room to judge — is completely anonymous. Pick where it belongs and tell us everything.
Send us your messiest, most cringe-worthy, can't-believe-it-happened dating story, confession, or question for a shot at the next show.
Submit a StoryGot a grievance you need judged? Submit your pettiest dating moment and let the room decide if you're right.
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